There are so many big transitions in a woman’s life that can cause her to have an identity crisis:
Losing a parent.
You catch the drift.
Even when these transitions are truly desired they can still knock you off your feet.
So what’s a girl to do?
Watch this week’s video to find out.
Short on time? Read on for the transcript.
When you get married, have kids or move countries it can feel like you’re having a bit of an identity crisis.
If that’s what you’re going through right now, this episode is for you.
This is something that I’ve personally been through in my own journey…many times over.
When I got married, left my job, left the corporate world behind, had kids, constantly got referred to as my kids mum.
It’s not easy to have an identity crisis.
At first, I found it quite challenging.
However, now that I’m (somewhat) on the other side I think it’s one of the best things that can happen to you.
You realize that you’re more what your role and title is.
The truth is we live in a society which likes to label things.
Our mind to a certain extent likes the label because we can compartmentalize and put things into certain categories and sort and filter.
I believe this doesn’t work for you in your life and it doesn’t work for you as a person because the truth is you are incredible.
You are more than what you do.
You’re more than what you’ve done in your past.
You are a soul.
You have an energy and nobody can really define that because it’s so unique to you.
So if you’re going through a crisis just know that this is a beautiful opportunity for you to realise that you are so much more than what you have been calling yourself, thinking of yourself or portraying yourself to others.
You know it does not matter what color your skin is, how much money you have in the bank, how far along your journey you are.
All that truly matters is the decisions you make today, the energy you bring to what you do and how you showing up.
So this video is really an invitation for you to stop beating yourself up over not being clear on who you are, where you’re going necessarily, and how to define yourself.
You don’t have to know that because you are undefinable.
You have different hats. You have different roles in different situations and contexts you might be a slightly different version of yourself and that’s okay.
But at the heart of it, you are enough.
There’s no one in the world quite like you and you are incredible.
So please please remember that.
Sending lots of love.