Ever since I was a little kid I’ve been obsessed with the question of:
“What am I doing with my life?”
“What am I meant to be doing?”
“What am I here for?
These questions have always been at the back of my mind – and currently, underpin all of the work that I do today with my one on one clients.
What I’ve come to realize is that your work is not your purpose.
Finding that dream job or starting that dream business is not the answer.
This might come as a bit of a shock to you because that’s when I help people with.
But I’ll tell you the truth.
The real work that I do with women behind the scenes is not to pick a career.
The ultimate key to figuring out your “purpose” and “path” is to come back to your essential self — who you truly are, your gifts, your talents, the natural energy that you exude when you walk into the room — and owning that.
That my friends is the key.
It’s not about becoming something you’re not.
It’s about unlearning the fears you have around being all of you.
Curious to know how to do this?
Watch this week’s 4-minute video on the two important things to remember about your “purpose”.
Short on time? Read on for the transcript.
Are you looking to figure out your life purpose?
Maybe you’re looking to figure out that “perfect” career that’s going to allow you to feel complete fulfilment and success….and make you feel like finally, you’re on the right path?
If so this week’s episode is for you.
The ultimate key to figuring out your purpose and path is to come back to your essential self — who you truly are, your gifts, your talents, the natural energy that you exude when you walk into the room — and owning that.
That my friends are totally the key.
Without this component of figuring out who you are at a deeper soul level, I believe that you could try a million different careers and not feel happy.
Wanna know why?
Because you’re not showing up as all of you.
Look this actually goes beyond your career.
This extends to life as well.
Who are you as a
Your purpose in life is two-fold.
Number #1: To enjoy the pleasures of life
I’m talking about enjoying…
…..That beautiful taste of chocolate
……Fresh clean sheets
…..A shower at the end of a really long sweaty day here in Hong Kong.
Part of your purpose is to enjoy the simple pleasures in life to be human and to enjoy this experience. That’s number one.
Number #2: To express all of your unique gifts and talents with the world
This is how you make a contribution.
Yes, your career is one aspect of that but you wear many different hats in your everyday life. You show up and interact in many different ways.
I believe that how you do one thing is how you do everything.
So coming back to the core essence of who you are is what’s going to unlock the key pattern that’s holding you back.
A funny thing happens in the work I do with clients….
Once a woman owns that part of herself (her true essential self) instinctively and intuitively the right path unfolds. The direction is there. Always.
I’m not saying that it’s easy.
But that is the practice of cultivating communication with yourself to say…
…….“No this is me
…….This feels right by me.
…..I’m going to do it this way.”
That is the practice and that is the journey and that is the devotion.
So if you are looking to find that perfect career or to start a dream business I invite you to take a step back and look at who are you?
Who are you?
At a deeper level than…
- your job title
- the roles that you play
- The money that you make
- your name
…..Because all of those things are just “titles” and “names” that we give to you. Things that “label” you into a certain category because our minds like that.
But you are so much more than the labels and roles you play…..your gifts and your talents are what we need in the world.
So if you’re curious to dive into this a little bit more… I’m actually be trying something new and doing a Facebook Live next week.
You can join me by registering for the event on Facebook:
I would love for you to come and join me live on Thursday, September 6th at 8am New York, 1pm London, 8pm Hong Kong, 10pm Sydney time.
On the Facebook Live, I’m going to be talking you through the three steps to actually connect with that inner self.
I’ll answer the questions you might be having which are:
How do you tap into her? Your real self?
How do you figure this out?
Because the truth is this is not actually about looking externally to get the answer.
This is about unlearning all of the crap that you’ve accumulated over lifetimes telling you that who you are isn’t enough, that you can’t do things a certain way, and that you can’t be you.
I’m really really excited to dive into that more for you.
Here are the dates again:
Thursday, September 6th at:
- 8am New York
- 1pm London
- 8pm Hong Kong
- 10pm Sydney
I can’t wait to connect with you there.
In the meantime this week just remember….
There is no one in the world who can do what you do the way you do it.
Your purpose is to be all of yourself and to express that with heart and with soul.
Sending so much love!